Anal sex (ALL YOU NEEDS TO KNOW)

                                         ANAL SEX

Its advantages and bad sides

Many people only find anal sex distasteful, due to the region in which it happens. They might feel unclean and assume their partner won’t have a good time, due to some rather unfortunate circumstances that sometimes happen. Some women even feel insecure or nervous about it.

"Anal sex is not everyone"

So maybe you tried it and maybe you haven’t.Chances are either you (admit it!) or your partner have at the very least thought about it.Anal sex, far from being the taboo it once was, is making its way into mainstream bedrooms everywhere. With a little patience, and possibly some lube, anal sex can result in a satisfying orgasm for both of you. Sexual intimacy is a normal part of a healthy relationship, so whatever brings pleasure to both parties is never a bad thing. But first let's look at the definition!

Anal sex or anal intercourse 

is generally the insertion and thrusting of the erect penis into a person's anus, or anus and rectum, for sexual pleasure.

Apart from the penis other forms of insertion are fingering,use of sex toys, oral anal and pegging.

Anal sex is done by homosexuals and lesbians. Some couples also indulge in anal sex as well.

Like I said before, it’s not for everyone, but I truly believe everyone should try it once. And if you find any of thesebenefits intriguing, try it a bunch more times! Here are some surprising benefits of anal sex that you should be reaping.

#1 Keeps your immune system in great shape.Sex in general is fantastic foryour health. It boosts your immune system by keeping you in shape, because of the exercise involved, and introduces your antibodies to all sorts of different things it can ramp up and keep in check.

#2 Clears you out.As much as people really don’t like to discuss their bowel movements, it is important to mention that anal sex does a great job of clearing you out—something that is extremely helpful in keeping you healthy. Due to all the increased activity in that region and blood flow down there, it helps your bowels get moving and makes it much easier to pass them. But don’t worry! This will NOT happen during the actual act. Hopefully.

#3 Is generally more pleasurable for the men.Many men find anal sex more pleasurable than vaginal sex because the anus is tighter than the vagina. And since men get off due to the pressure on their member, it’s no wonder that a tighter entrance would feel better.But that’s not the only reason they tend to like it more. It also gives them a sense of accomplishment, makes them feel a little rebellious, and gives them a feeling of being powerful and dominant something that feeds their primal instincts.

#4 Is really pleasurable for the women.The anus has an enormous amount of nerve endings, both surrounding it and directly within it. This means that, even though women aren’t being physically pleasured through their vagina, it’s still really pleasing for them.It’s also really pleasurable, because the G-spot can still be reached when men enter and push against the vaginal wall. So really, women can have orgasms through anal penetration, alone.

#5 Increases intimacy between partners.There is a significant amount of trust that has to be in place before anal sex can happen. Many women are nervous, insecure, and have issues accepting anal sex, due to the physical requirements and reputation it seems to have. Not only that, but it also creates a closeness, because both partners are getting their needs met. If the man wants to experiment with anal sex and the woman complies, he feels closer to her, knowing she is doing something for his pleasure.

#6 Eliminates fear of pregnancy.You cannot get pregnant through anal sex alone. Unless some sperm somehow comes out of the anus and finds its way into the vagina, you will not get pregnant. This eases tension that is sometimes felt between two people during sex.Without that tension, people are freer to enjoy themselves and men get to finish inside women—something that they all love to do. It’s a win-win for everyone, really

#7 Sperm benefits. sperm has a ridiculous amount of benefits to it. When a man releases inside a woman, it can affect her in a lot of ways. Usually, this happens through the vagina. However, newer research has shown that sperm released in the anus has the same effects. Some common benefits of sperm are as follows: natural anxiety reducer, anti-depressant, improves quality of sleep, increases energy, natural pain reducer, improves mental alertness, and has the ability to increase a woman’s libido.

#8 Increases sexual diversity.If you feel like your sex life has been rather boring, anal sex will certainly spice things up a bit! It’s a perfect way to introduce something new into your sex life that the two of you have never tried before.This is extremely helpful in a long-term relationship when you feel like you’re “used to” your partner. It can make things fun and new again!

#9 Fantastic alternative to period sex.Some girls just don’t want to have sex during their period. Maybe they don’t like it, their partner doesn't like it, or they don’t want to deal with the mess. Either way, anal sex offers a great alternative to sex when you’re on your period.By taking the sexual activities to the back, you are keeping the period away from everything, so you don’t have to deal with it at all.

#10 It’s exciting!It really is. It’s not something that people do a lot and it’s an exciting new thing that you can bring to your relationship. It’ll have both of you feeling like young teenagers engaging in sexual activities for the first time. Talk about reminiscing!

Now let's look at the disadvantages of anal sex

1.) Rectal tears (which can be painful and makes it easier for infections to reach the bloodstream; this        also facilitates transmission of STDs like HIV, HPV, Herpes, gonorrhoea, etc)

2.) Anal sex may also increase the risk of anal cancer if certain high risk strains of HPV are passed

3.) Allergic proctitis (inflamed rectum as a result of lubricants)

4.) An increased risk for passing gas (farting)

5.) Bowel germs in your bladder or prostate as the buttocks are not the cleanest of places.

6.) Anal sex causes the fats around the loobs of hip to dissolve due to muscular irritation caused by           anal sex

7.) Severe anal pain afterwards.

8.) The bacteria (including billions of coliform bacteria) from the anus which is the passageway of           stool can potentially invade the bloodstream and cause serious, life-threatening infections (e.g. E.        coli)

9.) The embarrassment of the penis coming out with traces of brown.

10.) The lady may end up using adult diapers

Trying new things is always exciting, but can also be a bit intense, because there is so much you don’t know. Will it hurt? Will you like it? You won’t know until you check it out! Your anus has thousands of sensitive nerve endings in and around it that can give you pleasure. Most of these nerve endings are concentrated around the opening, but the outer part of the rectum also has them. With the inner part of the rectum, what feels good during sex is mostly the pressure and fullness that comes with being penetrated.

For those of u that want to try it I will give u a step by step guide

Here's what you need to know before you dive in to the wide world of anal sex .. *.How To prepare.*

As with any new experience, you need to know how to prepare. Here are some things to consider:

You may Learn Yourself First.
You may have noticed that your anal canal, called your rectum, is very tight.Going straight from not having anything in there to having a full erect penis inside it can be intense, and even painful, if not done correctly. We’ll talk more a bit

later about how to make sure anal sex feels pleasurable, but something you can do beforehand is get used to having a larger item up there. General practice is to start with a finger (yours or your partner’s) or athin sex toy, and work your way up. Starting on your own is a great way to become comfortable with new sensations and be able to communicate to a partner what feels good and what feels … like too much.

*Feel Free To Clean yourself*

one of the first misconceptions about anal sex is that it’s unclean because it involves butts. In actuality, your anus has natural bacteria that helps fight infection, and if you clean your body regularly, your butt is as clean as the rest of you. So you don’t need to wash yourself right before you check out anal penetration, although by all means, do so if it will make you or yourpartner more comfortable. However, you should definitely wash whatever implement you're using (a toy, a penis) so that it doesn't infect you with anything.

*Lubricate, Lubricate, lubricate*

something really important to know about your anus is that, unlike your vagina, it's not self-lubricating. All that slippery goodness that coats your vagina when you’re turned on, and makes sex feel great while protecting your vaginal walls? Not naturally present during anal sex. Luckily, humans are improvisational creatures, and have invented lube(which is also fun and super useful for vaginal sex). Make sure you have lots of lube on hand when experimenting with anal play — even if you’re using smaller implements, like toys or fingers. It will make everything feel much better and be much safer for your body. Just make sure if you’re using condoms that your lube iswater-based and not oil-based, since oil-based lube degrades latex.

*Doing The deed*

so you’re lying there with your partner and some lube. Now what?

*Step 1*
  Get In The mood
The most important thing is to get really turned on and comfortable. Your anus is surrounded by a ring of muscle called the anal sphincter, which is designed to keep in feces. Your sphincter needs to be relaxed to allow something to pass through it. So do whatever works for you to get yourself feeling fantastic. Some people say that having an orgasm before you try anal sex is a good way to get super relaxed.So get down with yourself, or solicit your partner to help you out!

*Step 2: Get Slippery.*

Once you’re feeling in the mood, it’s time to get lubed up. Remember that if you were about to have vaginal sex, your body would have been busy preparing you by getting all wet and juicy. Since your anus can’t do that on its own, give it a hand! (But actually, you probably want to start with a finger.) Put lube both inside and around your anal opening and on whatever implement you’re planning on using — whether it’s a finger,a toy, or a penis.

*Step 3: Go slow*

when you’re ready for actual penetration, the best rule is to GO SLOW. This is why it’s important to trust the person penetrating you. You need to be relaxed so that you don’t tense up your muscles, which is what can cause pain. Have your partner penetrate you a little, then stop and wait for you to get used to the new feeling. Once your muscles have relaxed, your partner can continue, little by little, until you feel comfortable with the whole thing. There’s absolutely no rush.

*Step 4: Positioning Is everything*

try a position that gives you as much control as possible — such as sitting on your partner’s lap. Many experts recommend starting of flying on your side and being spooned. Doggy style can be the easiest for insertion, but if your partner can’t see your face, they won’t be able to see your reactions and gauge how you’re doing, and you have no control over the speed and penetration depth.

*Step 5: Don’t Forget To Stay slippery*

remember that during the experience of anal sex, even if you are having the most mind blowing time of your life, you aren’t making any of your own lubrication. Drying up feels not great, and can actually cause pain and tearing of your anal tissue. If you’re feeling a bit dry, tell your partner to grab the lube and reapply. It will only make everything feel even better, so don't feel bad about taking multiple lube breaks.

*Health Concerns To Keep In mind*

while anal sex is definitely safe, there are some health risks to consider when you’re getting down in this way.

*pregnancy*

many male/female couple pairs enjoy anal sex because you can’t get pregnant with it, and it’s true that pregnancy can’t occur if ejaculation happens in your ass. However, if some ejaculate gets into your vagina, there is a risk of pregnancy.

*Sexually Transmitted infections*

the biggest risk of anal sex is the transmission of STIs. Basically, anything you can get in your vagina, you can also get in your anus — including HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, and HPV. In fact, because your anal tissue isn’t lubricated, it’s more likely to get tiny tears during sex, which let bacteria into your body more easily than vaginal tissue does. So the risk of catching an STI is actually higher with anal sex than vaginal sex.If you’re practicing anal sex with someone who has an STI, or someone who may have an STI, consider using a condom. If you’re concerned that you may have gotten exposed to an STI, it’s a good idea to get tested — tell your doctor that you’ve engaged in anal sex,so they can check for infection there.

*Vaginal Infections* .

Another thing to pay attention to is getting bacteria from your rectum into your pussy. Your vagina has lots of bacteria living in it, in a symbiotic yet tenuous balance.Disrupting the balance can lead to yeast infections and all sorts of other nether parts challenges. Additionally, anal bacteria in your vagina can result in a urinary tract infection, which can be painful and unpleasant.To make sure you don’t share bacteria between your fun parts, either clean the insertion implement (finger, penis, toy) between uses, or just switch condoms. It’s also a good idea to remind your partner to keep track of hands and toys in this regard — maybe he can designate one hand for touching your pussy and clit and another for anal play, so he doesn’t accidentally get you sick!

*Muscle weakening*

since your anal sphincter is a muscle built to keep things in, if you routinely insert large objects through it,it can get stretched. This can make it weaker, which can make it more difficult for you to keep feces inside you until you want to push it out. If you notice this is happening, don't worry! It's a muscle we're talking about, so you can strengthen it. The way to get this muscle stronger is to do kegels — in fact, it's a good idea to do kegels to prepare for anal sex, regardless. It will make everything feel even more delicious.

*The Bottom Line* .

The most important thing about anal sex — and actually the most important thing about all sexual acts — is to make sure you’re actually excited about experiencing it. Don’t just do it because your boyfriend wants to, or because you think you should. The sexiest thing you can give a partner is your complete and utter consent 

— a F&%K YES shouted to the world! If you’re not feeling that, then take a moment and consider whether checking out this new thing is the right thing to do at this moment. No one should be forcing you

 — if someone is, that’s not consenual sex.

*Thank you*