Why do we have so many single ladies out there

In today’s world is there anyone who can’t identify with the anguish caused by the failure of a relationship?

I submit that there’s no adult living in today’s world who hasn’t felt despair at the gaping chasm which exists between our ideals of what arelationshipshould be, and the reality that we’re confronted with.

The problem with today’s world is that we’re putting all of these fantasies of everlasting love into a context of a society where people aren’t willing to make the sacrifices necessary to make anything everlasting.

I know most men will agree that so many women claim to be “good women”. The reality is, only a handful truly fit the mold of being the woman a man truly needs and desires. There are several things that can be pointed out as towhy they are not ready and why they continuously find themselves single.

There are a lot of pretty and smart single ladiesout there and you often wonder why they are not attached to anyone or why no guy wants to be with them.

Clearly, some ladies are single because they choose to be. They are simply not interested inbeing in a serious relationship at this time in their life. For some others, they are single due to circumstances.

Many ambitious and very successful women find it hard to marry. There’s this notion that the more successful a woman is, the more threatening she is to the man. The assumption from men is that she will be disrespectful, arrogant and proud. But in the real sense, its just a mere speculation... Money brings out the true nature of a person.

Many are in church asking God for husband, praying and fasting. Not that God didn't hear their prayer or God never answered their prayers but most ladies are the reason why they are still single

So now Let’s take a look at some reasons women are still remaining single and they are as followed:

👉 1.HIGH MAINTENANCE & YOU DON’T WORK–
The high maintenance woman isn’t appreciated by most men, and manywomen tend to be high maintenance these days without knowing. When it comes to a serious affair like marriage, men tend not to favor this kind of women.

👉2.BEAUTY WITHOUT BRAINS–

Some women are extremely beautiful to the point that they have nothing else to offer but their beautiful face and sexy body. Beauty could get tiring when there’s nothing else to offer; most men would want a beautiful wife, but there should bemore to offer.

👉 3. THEY DON’T SEE WIFE POTENTIAL IN YOU–

Men group women into wife material and girlfriend material; meaning,you might be good enough to be his girlfriend but not good enough to be his ‘Mrs’. If he sees you more as a girlfriend material, he wouldn’t put a ring on those fingers, no matter what.

👉 4.THE BOSSY WOMAN–
The woman who wants to be in charge, the woman who wants to control everything, the woman who wants to change her man by force is the kind of woman men get scared of marrying. A man can adjust with love n prayer, not by force...

👉5.THE ONE WHO DOESN’T TAKE CARE OF HERSELF–

I’m not sure the men of this generation would want a woman who can’t take care of herself. Men want their wives to be attractive and good looking; it’s not about being superficial with beauty products, but just doing what’s right and necessary to be an attractive woman or neat woman.
Note: you must not go naked to look attractive!

👉6.THE ONE WHO’S DESPERATE–

A woman who’s desperate for a man isn’t really valued by men. When you become too clingy and desperate, your flaws become more obvious and terrifying, andyour value would tend to drop.Desperation is a turn off for most men.

👉7. TOO MUCH GAMBLE:

Some ladies have a mistrust of marriage that comes from having witnessed firsthand one (or many) failed ones.

You will see a lady at early 30th still playing game,  having 3 to 4 men on her couple list. Many of them make infidelity a priority and ultimate goal among their friends.

Don't hold on to ur past relationship n expect a better one.
Let go if d past n face the present.
Maintained a limited closed relationship partner

👉Lastly,  THE ONE WITH A TERRIBLE ATTITUDE– Every man wants a good wife with a good attitude, and not every woman has this. I’ve seen a number of men who love their lady but are scared of taking the relationship further, because of that eight letter word – attitude.

Some ladies are horrible inwards. They are Jezebel personified. Some don't have home training, etc...

Conclusion and advise💞

Do not not allow your past mistakes compromise your hope for the future. Never letyour fear of the unknown and things being too difficult make your choices for you in life. Taking a chance at love means you take a chance with your heart.

And I want to let all our ladies know Men are scared of getting married to a lotof women for these reasons. They might like you enough for a relationship, but would be reluctant to take the relationship further. Search yourself to know which one is affecting you and make an amendment immediately.

Please let us stop playing gamble. Let focus on our ultimate goal in life and everything in life Is not all about money. If u find broke partner support him or her. Be clinical and cynical in your rationship, focus on love,  communication,  and attention with your partner.