INTERESTING: RELATIONSHIP AND CONFLICT MANAGEMENT

Talking about conflict management  So many of us don't know  how to handle it.
Relationship is full of challenges and issues. Having mentioned conflict
 I knew many of us will conclude on fighting and bullying  Under dis episode, we're going to look into emotional and physiological conflicts dat associate with our relationships and as well offer some solutions

 (1) FEELINGS OR EMOTIONAL CONFLICT:
Under dis factor we're going to look into urge and sex. In every relationship, there's conflict between urge and sex, like if anybody wants to fall in love with u and d person says he doesn't have urge for sex, please  don't take the risk of falling in love with such person Such person will impregnate you and abandon u, while the female  counter part will tell u she doesn't like talking bout sex but she'll tell u one day dat she's pregnant.  Its not a sin to have urge, is not a sin to feel horny..however, the conflict between urge and sex requires self control and discipline Solutions are

>you must be in charge of your thoughts and mind activities

>deny your mind of negative thoughts

>the body is selfish in nature, b conscious of it

>every porn site is an enemy to your mind and body

>be mindful of your conversations

>nude, sex and level of maturity is determined by your control over sex urge.

 (2)REASONING &MISUNDERSTANDING CONFLICT:
 If u don't know how to manage these two factors in a relationship, believe me you're likely to breakup, it has ruin a lot of relationships, even marriages
 The way you understand your partner and the manner of his reasoning will decide a lot in your relationship.  Solutions, these alphabet called "W", do you know your angle of view determines what you will call it?

There's an angle you'll view it, you'll call it "M" another a person will view it from another angle and call it "3", some other person will view it from another angle and call it "E"

If u want to experience the best relationship or marriage you must respect your partners angle of view before conclusion, as you respect each other's point of view, you'll end up seeing it from d same view.

(3) ATTENTION & CARE CONFLICT,
 these two forms the foundation and pillars of any relationship, wen there's conflict here, there's a big problem.

But the problem here is that men r working so hard to prove that they're the head, instead to prove their love. while ladies are working so hard to prove that they're the people that really need this attention and care instead to prove appreciation to men.

SOLUTIONS

>both of you must realize that nobody deserves it more than the other

>don't make conclusions without hearing from each other

> show care as if it all depends on care

>give attention as if it all depends on attention

(4)COMMUNICATION CONFLICT,
 This is d bedrock of any relationship when there's conflict here, the relationship is in danger, another a name for relationship is communication, if u can't communicate, you can't relate.

 SOLUTIONS

> if you can't relate well don't fall in love

>if u can't communicate don't express your feelings

>if you're waiting for who will call or chat first, then you're not ready to relate. I.e (someone must carry the heavy load to make it work)...

Conflict management is the secret of any successful relationship or marriage