HOW TO HANLDE A DEMANDING RELATIONSHIP

Everybody have a desire about relationship.......
So many of us always have one desire in a relationship

A very paramount desire which is LOVE
We want acceptance
And beautifully we want someone who cares.someone who comes when or not in need

And this is relationship
Relationship has huge demands...does who do well in relationship are the sacrificial ones..they sacrifice themselves and theirs... (its a daily routine)
All for the other person

some,i mean the hot ones,will dwell mainly on the external manifestations of relationship....soon they are bored or fooled and that is the end

They start all over .the circles keep circling,the stories and heartbreak keep coming
You can't meet the demands of relationship if u are not sacrificial

But dear fellow,we can scale through the demands of relationship by

Firstly
...expecting the worse,while hoping for the best..we can smartly do this by seeing the positive,however,not forgetting life is a mixture of good and bad,a blend juice of sweet bitter taste

Secondly
..we need to really loosen our defining grip on perfection...for crying out loud are you prefect? Why then do u want a perfect half...You obviously dont expect your siblings to behave like you so why that for anoda person? You need to understand them.listen to their worries.fears and concerns

Then try and see if you can suggest,not impose a few solutions..allow them to see through themselves..let them see the true goodwill in a lovers suggestions..

Gradually a little,painless,modifications comes after.....but while doing this..you should also evaluate yourself..see what the other person wants..do it! Dont think it.adjust too....every reverse or advance needs little adjustment

The physical demands are as laborious as endearing too when there has to be one person at a time.we need each other...believe me we always do

And believe me you when someone really gets to win our heart is when they appear miraculously out of no where,coming to our aid....this usually ends with gratitude.

Love relationship always is that way
Say thank you always! every time! At every opportunity..then try to make your know
..he or she needs you too,she needs you..he needs you more than she as been there for you..
And more than he as been there for you......

Finally pray.....but think more

RELATIONSHIP DEMANDS ARE SO HARD
With This., I realized that you have to be a hero to your partner.. Like be there for them when they least expected it...
One more thing
Don't go too much outa your way to please her

Because of you do that all the time then you are in for it , but you don't  have to fight for attention

If that is the case then you are not meant to be in such a relationship