While it may appear to be odd or absurd, or even abnormal when as a married (wo)man you fix passwords on your phone only when you're out of the home but remove it the moment you're coming home to meet with your spouse, I personally consider it a proper thing to do. This is because in my thinking, aren't passwords fixed in gadgets such as phones, laptops, and so on for the purpose of preventing access by intruders? An intruder within this context of discourse can also be referred to as "a stranger". Being that as it may, fixing passwords on your device at home when you're there only with your spouse suggests that s/he is an intruder and or a stranger. The question therefore is, are you married to a stranger?
Meanwhile, I acknowledge the need for fixing passwords on devices while at home in order to prevent kids access, access leading to the damage of the device, or the delete of certain vital information contained in there. For this purpose, the password should be made known to the spouse, except if s/he is a kid, too. Haha...
As married, you're therefore challenged to make known your password to your spouse and or delete it whenever you're at home with him or her, IF you have no skeleton hidden in the cupboard of your phone. Haha... Note, revealing your password to your spouse does not only strengthen trust, it also has a way of checkmating the activities each of you engage in online.
Be open to each other, except if you're married to a stranger.
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